Confusion and dilemma

“You can keep pondering on which thing to do first or which path to take or by simply taking action now of most any kind, you may just find yourself on the way to where you most needed to go.”  April Bryan

Hello everyone, I hope you are all well and have enjoyed the bank holiday weekend.  A lot of work has gone down in the garden at home this weekend,  it is all ready for summer now, just a few minor tweaks   here and there but I finally have the pretty garden I have always wanted.  All that hard work has paid off, although I must admit that if I plant another plant I think I am going to be sick, I am suffering plant overload.  😉

Have you ever found your self in a situation where you do not know what to do for the best, not knowing which direction to turn.  You will sit for hours deciding what to do or you cannot seem to focus on anything as the dilemma is invading your thoughts and instead of solving the dilemma you just seem to become more confused.  If you seek advice from others they may say “what do you want to do”, “If it feels right go for it, but if it doesn’t don’t.”  Simple, easy and absolutely spot on, I am in total agreement with that but what if the heart and mind does not settle and the dilemma and the debate inside your head continues.  I find that by slowing down and quietening the mind and listening to how you are truly feeling can help to find the answer.  Ask your self how would you would feel if you took path A, and how would you feel if you did not and do the same for path B or C or any other paths that are open to you.  If that fails just do something, life is too short to do nothing and besides you just might find yourself on the right path that was meant for you.


Thank you for reading xxxx





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